Sunday, June 7, 2015

REFIT LoveRules Challenge Day 7


LOVE CHALLENGE #6: 
BE VULNERABLE. 
NOT VOMIT. 


Why is this part of ‪#‎LoveRules‬? Because even the best things need some guardrails.

Being vulnerable in itself is good and necessary, but sometimes we need to think about HOW to be vulnerable in order to share what we need to share while blessing the people around us. 

A huge factor is the size of the group. If you're surrounded by a large group of people, it's best to keep what you're saying CLEAR and concise, because other people probably want to share and participate, too.

Another thing to note is that your community WANTS to be with you and really understand what's going on, but if you share your entire life's woes in front of the whole group, you're not leaving people room to ask questions and continue the conversation in a way that's helpful to you.

The best thing you can do is to process what you feel with God, your best friend, mom, etc. before sharing with anyone else. When we process with a close one first, we're then free to share just for the joy of being supported and known by #community! The best part about all of this is that you won't regret your vulnerability, and you have a whole family of ‪#‎revolutionaries‬ ready to rally around you! Give it a try!

SHARE this post on social media (instagram, twitter, facebook, pinterest, etc.) adding @refitrev + #LoveRules and you could get love-bombed!

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